A Proposal to Remember

Asking your beloved the most important question is going to be easy. Besides the uncertainty over the outcome (Will she say ‘Yes’), there are countless other things running through your mind as your plan special proposal. And then you do ask her the question, and she responds… What happens afterwards? How do you deal with outcome? Presuming that it is a favourable one, what should you do next. Important questions that need answers. If you’re curious to find out, we’re here to provide some.

Why Preparation is Important  

Researching for and buying the best engagement ring is the only the first step in the process. Getting to the point where you are able to pop the question to your partner and to do so in a manner that is respectful, romantic and memorable… There are many factors to consider here. Here are a few other things that you really need to keep in mind:

• Getting her an Engagement Ring that fits.

  It is easy to forget this most basic point about engagement ring buying. But it is something that many enthusiastic men forget. Whilst a lot of time and energy is aimed towards getting her an engagement ring with the right design, her favoured precious stone/colour, with the right metal of choice. However, measurements are key. You don’t want to go down give her the ring, and to accept it and wear it, only for the ring to fall off or too small to fit her finger. Make your proposal memorable with a solid engagement ring that stays on her.

• Have an eye on the Wedding Ring.

  You thought getting the right engagement ring was trouble enough!? Whilst a wedding may seem like a simpler choice than an engagement ring, there a number of factors one has to consider when purchasing it. Importantly the type of engagement ring design: colour, precious stone, the metal that you are picking. For these choices will affect your decision. And her ring finger measurements. And here’s a tip: If your idea is to make your proposal memorable: After it ends, why not show her your choice of a wedding ring. She may end up liking your proposal, and you, even more!

Popping the Question

We’ve all seen the (or at some point done it). Getting down on one knee, with an engagement ring in hand, as the man proposes to his fiance to be. But the act of proposing is only half the story. Asking a woman to marry you is meant to be a powerful moment. Know that she’s saying ‘Yes’ not only to your request for her hand in marriage but for a long term bond that starts anew at that moment. So how do you make this moment work? How do you make it memorable for you and for her? Here are some points to consider:

• Plan the Day.

  Before the task of actually asking her, to become your future wife, there is a process of getting to know if she’s ready for the big question. Whilst your relationship will determine how ready each of you are for it, but when it comes to the actual moment of proposing, you two must be ready. As a start, give out some hints. Your questions about engagement ring styles, precious stones, favourite metal and colour would have naturally made her curious. Now it is time to take to a higher level. Ask her about her favourite place to eat (you already know-hint!). If you’re planning a holiday, book a place to her favourite location. Or take her to a place she likes best. Make extra preparations. Basically let “know”, without letting her know. She’ll get the idea.

• Make it Romantic (Duh).

  OK. So let’s see how such a “proposal day” will play out. The two of you are on holiday. To a place that the two of you enjoy. Now the question has been working inside you for a while. And as it happens, in her too. You have the engagement ring (that fits), you have the location setup, and you have thought of something to follow. Wait. You haven’t!? Look, making the proposal is one key step, when she says, a lot of things are going to happen. Find out about it, in the final point.

• When making your proposal, it is best to keep it private. Whilst “the public” proposal, might be popular online. But if things go wrong! And they might. You just don’t want that to happen. So in addition to privacy, have something extra planned for the event. A special menu item (if you’re having dinner etc). Her favourite music. That plays when she says yes. So go out and make it memorable.

What Happens After She Says Yes

The process leading up to making that special proposal is never easy. However when the question is asked, and she says ‘Yes’, the next stage of the process/relationship has only begun. Keeping the magic of your new connection, one that is sealed by a precious stone alive is the next step. How should you approach this? What are the factors you must consider, emotionally, and in terms of preparation as you plan your next move? One that leads, hopefully to a joyous wedding. Here are things you must do as you plan your journey to the big day:

• Enjoy the special Time.

  After the proposal is complete (successfully), make sure to take the next few days (or weeks if you’re lucky) to enjoy your time together. Bonding time after a proposal is important. And don’t hassle yourself with future plans now. Enjoy the moment.

• Don’t stop with the Engagement Ring. 

  Sure. The engagement ring is probably the best gift she has received to date. But that doesn’t mean you can stop spoiling your beloved. If you want it, and afford it, you can keep your fiance happy and hopeful for what is to come with some wonderful gifts. Precious jewellery comes in many designs and to serve numerous functions, and if you're ready there are a host of designs to choose from.